Day 30: my highs and lows within this month

My lows:

• still many papers to read, though :(
• can't meet Thomas before his defence
• still many assignment to do
• have to clean the whole house this week *hosh*

My highs:

• watched opera with my flatmates 
• Thomas graduated master
• finished the first presentation of this semester
• cooked my favorite ayam bumbu rujak ala me, and my flatmates love it! 
• I finally finished this blog challenge!! Hahahaa *gees*

Day 29: Goals for the next 30 days

In 30 days is my birthday, tralalala :P So these are my goals for the next 30 days:

• finish 2 assignments and 2 presentations
• therefore finish reading 3 other papers
• begin to write the 3rd presentation
• finish the advent calender project
• finish recording project
• send parents' christmas present
• send Galih's birthday present
• send relatives christmas postcards
• reunion with Jenov :D
• hopefully I could finish the first tasks earlier,so that I can attend KMKI Aachen's christmas party

Gees, I have a lot to do.

Day 28: Something that I miss

I miss dancing

I miss pempek

and I miss my mbah

Day 27: A problem that I have had

Got jerks in my group, that could not work and could not even cooperated.. Well said (or maybe not?): I'm too persistent. And my eyes are again opened to see that a lot of boys are weak. A lot. Not all. Ok, maybe it's just me, who is just too sanurian..

Day 26: What Kind of Person Attract Me

I'm not really sure, what they actually want from me to write.. To attract means in my opinion to get an attention because of two reasons: positive and negative. Both cause a same effect: sometimes I couldn't get my eyes off them.

The positive ones: I couldn't get my eyes off him/her, because he/she looks good or he/she has something that makes me never get bored to look at him/her. He/she is really really smart or talkative. He/she dances. He/she sings or plays music. He/she is a nice person to talk with. He/she is open minded.

The negative ones: I couldn't get my eyes off him/her, because there is something wrong with their appearance. Not ugly. Unproportional face something like that should be enough. He/she has a weird accent, that sounds soooo annoying! Well okay, more annoying than that would not cause me to look at them. Because longer I look at them, I have this feeling, that I'm near to kill them ;)

In case of finding partner: just look at the positive one (but only for the 'he'). Additionally, I would add:he is clean (in view of taking bath regularly) and neat (his clothes are ironed!). He is older and wiser and catholic.  He is polite and well educated. He travels.  etc etc :)

Day 25: Someone who fascinates me

Oh I finally got an inspiration, who I want to write about.. :) I met this woman in Dortmund in 2009. She stayed not really long in Germany, but she is one of the most independent women beside sanurian that I've ever met. She inspired me a lot to be an independent smart woman. Because she does. I look what she has been now! She has been living in so many countries, experienced so many culture.She is open-minded and she has friends from all around the world. She talks about politics and percuade women to participate in politics as well. She is more sanurian than a sanurian, but she is not a nerd and she is quite religious, in her own way. For a short time, we became really close, eventhough I almost lost contact with her *bad me*. And she made me believe somehow, smart woman belongs to smart environment and smart guy. I think she is the real modern Kartini: women should be allowed to experience education as high as they want to.

Hmm, maybe I should get in contact with her again :) By the way, selamat Hari Pahlawan!

Day 24: my favorite movie

So, my favorite movie is....

This film was released in 2003. I watched once at the movie(I guess) and several time at home. The film is about clownfish father and son. It started  with a tragic scene where humans destroy the underwater living and Marlin lost all of his eggs (and wife) except one, Nemo. But because of the accident, Nemo was then born handicapped. His one fin was really small that reduced his swimming ability. Like any other little kid got mad to his dad, Nemo tried to runaway from home, but got captured a diver / fish collector. Marlin had then an adventure to find and get back Nemo home. On the way, he met Dory, a good-hearted bluefish with SML-syndrome, sharks, other small fish and turtles. Don't forget Squirrel and his "Dude"! This film made me cry everytime I saw it.

Day 23: Five pictures of famous guys that I find attractive

1. Eddie Redmayne, played in Les Miserables

2.Chris Pine, played in Princess Diary 2 and Into The Woods

3. Aidan Turner, played in The Hobbit

4.Ramin Karimloo, sings musicals, like: Phantom of The Opera, Love Never Dies, Les Miserables, etc.

5. Valentin Schreyer, played in Lindenstrasse

  
Photo courtesy: Google

Day 22: How have I changed in the past 2 years?

Physically: I can just gain weight without loosing any pounds! But this is always happen to me (hmm as long as I can remember) everytime I have a boyfriend. Haha. It is just started this summer, but I'm now more motivated to do more sport. Well okay, it might still a little bit less than I should do in a week. I'm still proud of myself, though! Well, I ride bike as usual, but my campus now is even nearer than the last ones and you know, Oldenburg is flat! So during the summer break, we went swimming once a week. We, I mean, Thomas and I. During the internship, the swimming pool is closed. So I went to muscle training course. That was hard. Eventhough, you get used to it after a few times. This semester I do zumba with my flatmate every wednesday. That's fun. But still I hope, that I may have more time to do some other sports within the week.

Mentally:

• I become more a "let' build a family" type (is this a change?)
• Less homesick
• More talkative, especially in German
• I become sassier, I guess 
• At the same time depend a lot on Thomas and independent for my study
• I try to have more initiative to help the other(that I know)
• I try to manage time by myself
• Try to get anything that I want, without (financial) help from my parents
• I become more defensive when it comes to refugees. I don't like refugees and I still haven't seen a reason, why I have to be sympathic to them 

I think this should be enough.

Day 20: How Important Education is

This topic was done once in the last blog challenge. See here.

Day 19: Disrespecting My Parents

Aha. If you don't want to get a punch, don't you dare disrespecting my parents. They are not the best persons but they are the best that I have, so don't you dare. My aunt got angry with me because she blamed my mom for one thing, that my mom didn't missunderstand but she. And I berated the cousin of a good friend of mine because she 'blamed' my mom to have forwarded her wrong info, that my mom even only copy pasted it from anybody else, and she wrote it. Idiots!

I might not the most polite daughter, because I like to fight for my freedom, but I think everything still can be categorized as 'okay'. My parents still pay my living costs here, and it is not a small amount, so I have logically no reason disrespecting my parents. Why should I?

Day 18: My Beliefs

I believe in God, that has plans on me. I believe that he hears us and every time he gave us obstacles, he just wants us to be stronger than we are before. He is not giving us something above of what we could handle. So, if this semester I have so many presentations to be done. I will try my best to finish all and let Him do the rest :)

I believe that any kind of education is important. Nevertheless, it is also important to get socialize with people. They are part of life education, you know! Formal education without social life is a 'handicapped'-education.

I believe that young women also have rights on freedom. They may make decisions on their own, they may take the risks of life, they may travel around the world alone (if they want to). Parents may give suggestions, not orders. Parents may worry about their daughters, who lives far away, but they should believe in her, that she can handle things.

I believe that catholic schools still have the best education methods and show the best effects on children. Don't ask me why.

I believe that my diet this time is going to work out and I can loose some weights (haha! yeah).

I believe that parents let their kids marry who they love. Independently from religion, race, culture, usw. I'm so lucky, ya? :) But I'm sad though, because my bestfriend has never been in a relationship in her whole life, just because she has to be with bataknese and catholic man. That's hard, man!

I believe that eventhough we found more and more men who stay home for the kids, women should be able to do homeworks, like cooking, washing, cleaning, ironing, on their own. Independently on wheather they like it or not.

Day 17: High and Low in this past year

Counting from 20.10.2014-20.10.2015, here are my highs and lows:

Lows

• Moved to Oldenburg
• The first semester in Jade HS was like hell. I met a guy from higher semester who was not able to do anything. I mean really anything. The only thing he knew was how to install some software, but he can't use the software
• Eca went back for good :(
• Got pickpocked on the way from Vienna to Salzburg
• Worked for three months in McDonalds

Highs

• Passed the first semester
• Enrolled in the university, juhuu :)
• Passed last semester pretty good. The worst score was 2.0! Ahoi
• Been in Denmark, Austria and Switzerland this year
• Holidays with family
• Started to work at itap GmbH
• Did internship in EV

I try to keep being positive then for the next semester :)

Day 16: my view about mainstream music

Hey, it was again the same topic from two years ago! Click here to read it :)
I'm getting worse in updating some chart songs from the last 1,5 year.. My boyfriend suggested a lot of songs though, most from the 90s.. Pop, rock and metal.. Still don't like metal though.. So it always ended up with jazz :) Jazz say it :*

Day 15: My favorite Tumblr

Don't read tumblr that much...

Day 14: My earliest memory

Ups. Sorry I couldn't handle blogging... :( Things are going crazy again. Well, before I was at my brother and my boyfriend. Could not write everyday. Pardon.

Do I remember anything? Hmmm... I remember just something from the time when I was in kindergarten, but not the time younger... Eventhough when I saw photos, I looked (most of the time) quite happy.

I remember that I peed on a pissoir.. I remember when I sleptover at my grandma with my elder cousin. She was 12 and I was 6 at that time and we took a bath together. At that time I thought, "I want to have boops as well". What a thought!

In the kindergarten I was maybe one of the most embarassing kids ever.. Haha. In the first year I always did, what my teacher did. So if we sing and do some movement, I will stand up like my teacher, go to one side of the class where everybody can see me as well and start to sing and do the movement like my teacher. *facepalm*

Day 13: Somewhere I would like to move or visit

Hmm, I would like to move back to Jülich, to be honest.. But to move somewhere else, as long I can live with Thomas together, it doesn't matter for me as well...

I would like to visit.....
1. U.S.A: some relatives,  Disneyland Florida, NYC, Broadway

2. Indonesia: Raja Ampat, Green Canyon Pangandaran, Padang, Bunaken

3. Columbia

4. Turkey for ballooning

5. Egypt

6. Azerbaijan, meet Ulviyya again!
7. South Africa

8. Australia

9. UK, visiting Harry Potter's shooting locations, Big Band, watching concert or musical

10.a lot more!!

Photo courtesy: google

Day 12: Bullet my lazy day

Let's start:

• woke up at 10 a.m.
• had breakfast & tea
• marinated meat with gyros spices
• booked mitfahr
• had lunch
• baked apple cake
• delivered padang clothes to  Darwin n Nandea
• grill for dinner
• watched Dread Out
• took a bath
• it's Saturday Nite!!

Day 11: put my Spotify on Shuffle

These are the first 10 songs:
1. Creep (Karen Souza's version)
2. Johanna  (OST. Sweeney Todd)
3. Cinta dan Rahasia (Glenn Fredly, Yura Yunita)
4. Fightman (Casiopea)
5. All of me (Ella Fitzgerald)
6. What am I to you? (Norah Jones)
7. I wish (Stevie Wonder)
8. Nobody knows you when you're down and out (Eric Clapton)
9. Gone (Melody Gardot)
10. Goodnite (Melody Gardot)

Day 10: My first love and first kiss

Ahaha. This is gonna a quite embarassing topic ever. Or maybe not. Well, none of them hurts, if I talk about it actually. I mean, both were a quite good memory, even without a good ending. But I learn that life has to continue. And as the germans say: es ist auch gut so :)

My first love was the misdinar's CEO, while I was his secretary. I think he knew for a while after he broke up with my twinnie best friend, that I fell in love with him. But for some reasons, it's never ended up good. I became really over jealous, eventhough I was not his girlfriend. And to remember this thing is really really embarassing. It's just so childish! Well ok, I was 14 y.o at that time, but still it didn't sound so good. He is now in a relationship with a young woman from my brother's year since 9 or 10 years, I lose count ;) Good,that I moved on quite quick. Haha :) Since then, I've learned something: I become quite careful in choosing friends (this is really true) and not to tell everyone that I'm in love with somebody. It hurted at the time, that he can't be my bf, but it hurted more to realize what happened behind my back.

My first kiss was to my ex-pit trainer. I don't think that my parents know about this and that they would love to hear this. But it was my decision, or my wish to have a first kiss before I study in Germany. Don't know, maybe I just want to try, before I kiss bule or so.. Indonesian ought to be at that time more trustable. Hehe. Our story was quite short. But as I promised myself, I never regreted it, but I don't want to go back either. Es ist gut so :)