Count down for holidays

This is the happiness of university student, ha? Not anymore FH student means more holidays? Hehe, I would enjoy this part! Got an internship in the hospital in Oldenburg at the ENT-Clinics from August 31st until Sept 25th. Yeay! God is great :) Vorher bleibe ich noch bei Thomas 4 Wochen. Boah, ich hab schon ziemlich vorgenommen diese Ferien. Webdesign lernen und Webseite einrichten, Kontakt aufnehmen mit den Amis, wieder auf die Jobsuche (muss diesmal in der Uni sein, oder ähnlich, mindestens so Mathe-Nachhilfe). Ich fliege nicht mit nach Indonesien, weil ich dann ziemlich genau weiß, dass die oben genannten Sachen nicht erledigt werden können, wenn ich zuhause bin. Kann kaum auf meine Eltern warten. Sie kommen am 16. Juli und ich sehe sie dann am 18. Juli, da ich am 17. Juli noch eine Klausur habe. Fahre am 17. Juli nach der Klausur zu Eca. Machen den letzten Urlaub in DE zusammen (auch mit meinen Eltern) :).

Übrigens sind ein paar Fotos von Belgien bei Andys Priesterweihe.

Indonesians' Blah Blah Culture: Virginity

Indonesians and their "eastern" culture are sometimes just weird. It is taboo to kiss your partner in public (especially when you're not married). In some regions, you are even forbidden to use short skirt and as women you have to use headscarf. No boyfriend or girlfriend staying over at home. So to say: no sex before marriage. 

Well; I would say: I get enough of this. For me now it's just a blah blah culture. Why am I saying that? My age is a quite ideal age to get married. At least in our country.  Yes, I'm still trying to respect this kind of culture. But the fact is, a lot of women I know were giving birth after 5 or 6 months after the marriage. This is totally disappointing.. Does pregnancy become a  part of our 'everything-is-fast-and-instant' culture?

I'm just saying: this is the weakness of our culture. Girls are not even told to go to GE (gynaecologist), just because: we may not do sex before marriage. I'm not underestimating the culture, but we have to be realistic seeing that a lot of young couples are having sex secretly, in any places parents don't know. I know that the chance of interracial couples having sex are bigger (yeah yeah, I know if you're thinking about me having sex. Whatever.), but here I'm talking about indonesian with indonesian, whose culture is exactly the same! Put this one in mind: the more you are forbidden, the more you want to break the rule. It happens always. So in my opinion: it's better to teach girls (hey, even we never talked about it in Sanur), how to protect themselves while making love. Go to GE, ask for contraception pills. Girls, if you can't control boys for always using condoms, but you have to protect yourself and your future. Once you have to get married, when you're not ready, your life is not gonna be the same anymore. So, girls, please protect yourself!