Happy birthday

Facebook has sucessfully hidden my birthdate, yeay!  Well, I didn't even remember when I changed that setting. I guess last year already. This year no birthday wishes on my wall. But I could feel it, only best people care! :) Best friends (from elementary school,junior and senior high school and from FH Aachen, etc), boyfriend and his family, and my family. Oh, even my ex-headmaster ;)

Thanks a lot for your care and the very kind wishes! Especially those, who have wished early invitation of our wedding or engagement. Hahah, please just pray :) I love you, guys! You are the best I could wish for in life :)

I'm 25!! Juhuu..

P.S: gees, it almost reaches the end of the year. I re-read my wishlist from 2015, and realized that I need to make a new one. Same principal as last year, not that many, but realistic enough ;) So, back to presentation *hosh!*

Nikolaus!

Ini sayang bgt mau dimakan.... Yg kiri dpt dr Thomas, yg kanan dpt dr papanya, wkwk. Dita ga beli coklat buat Thomas. Huahha. Maaf...

Reunian sm Jenov

Belum kok. Kali ini belum marathon. Nanti nih 2 minggu lg sm si Michele bakal marathon. Haha. Anyway, it was quite fun on Saturday meeting Jenov and Christoph in Cologne. Reunian lg sm Jenov stlh 2 thn! Untungnya kita ke sana rada pagian, jadi ga sesumpek yg biasa. And yeah, in comparison to last year, yesterday was not that full. Well, for Thomas it was still too full, but I have to admit, that it was not as crowded as I expected. I guess, a lot of people refused to go to Weihnachtsmarkt because of bomb issue by IS :(

Nice to meet you again, Jenov. See you next time. Ga usah nunggu weihnachtsmarkt kali yaa.. hahah :)

WG geht in die Oper

Eigentlich wollten wir ins Kino am Wochenende. Annika mochte etwas gucken, aber zeitlich hat es doch nicht gepasst und Matthias hat vorgeschlagen in die Oper, wo er arbeitet zu gehen. Also waren Annika und ich in der Oldenburger Staatsoper zum ersten Mal :)

Selfie in dem Gebäude

Da da unser Premiere war, hat Matthias ein leichteres Stück vorgeschlagen. Wir haben: Manon Lescaut von Puccini geguckt. An sich war der Story echt simple. Ein echter Drama aber :) Manon Lescaut war eine Frau aus Paris, die von ihren Eltern ins Kloster geschickt wird. Da war ein Straßenmann hieß Renato des Grieux. Er war direkt in sie verliebt. Er sagte, eine schöne Frau wie sie sollte nicht ins Kloster gehen. Da war auch ein Steuerpächter, der sich auch für ihre Schönheit interessierte. Des Grieux und Lescaut waren dann abgehauen, bevor der Steuerpächter sie entführte. Manons Bruder kannte Manon aber zu gut, dass er sicher war, dass Manon Lescaut 100%ig wieder in Paris zu finden war. Er hat dem Steuerpächter dann geholfen, damit er und Manon zusammensein könnten. Manon hatte eine Beziehung mit Des Grieux, aber sie hat ihn verraten und hatte Affäre mit dem Steuerpächter. Keine sexuelle. Nur ist es so, dass Manon doch mit Reichtum gewöhnt war und mit Des Grieux zu leben, hieß ja leider ein armes Leben. Sie ist aber eigentlich verliebt in Des Grieux. Bei dem Steuerpächter bekam sie zwar alles an Schmuch usw, aber er war halt mega langweilig. Als Lescaut aussagte, dass sie wieder mit  Des Grieux zusammen wollte, war er selbstverständlich aufgeregt und hat sie angezeigt. Bevor die Polizei kam, hatten ihr Des Grieux und Lescauts Bruder gesagt, damit sie schnell abhaute. Manon hatte nach einem Schritt, anders überlegt. Der Schmuck wäre zu schade, um einfach da liegen zu lassen. Dann hat sie angefangen, den Schmuck erstmal zu sammeln. Dann war es natürlich zu spät. Sie kam dann in den Knast. Einen Tag danach wurde sie befreit. Sie hat Des Grieux versprochen, dass sie mit ihm arm leben wollte. Dann kam aber das Fieber. Lescaut ist schwach geworden und starb dann an dem Fieber. Ende: Des Grieux war mega traurig.

Der Saal

Wir drei im Saal vor der Aufführung

Uns hat die Oper auf jeden Fall gut gefallen. Annika geht heute sogar wieder dahin und guckte Hochzeit des Figaro. Und bleibe hier wegen aller Aufgaben von der Uni, die ich noch habe :/ Bis nächstes Mal dann!

Day 30: my highs and lows within this month

My lows:

• still many papers to read, though :(
• can't meet Thomas before his defence
• still many assignment to do
• have to clean the whole house this week *hosh*

My highs:

• watched opera with my flatmates 
• Thomas graduated master
• finished the first presentation of this semester
• cooked my favorite ayam bumbu rujak ala me, and my flatmates love it! 
• I finally finished this blog challenge!! Hahahaa *gees*

Day 29: Goals for the next 30 days

In 30 days is my birthday, tralalala :P So these are my goals for the next 30 days:

• finish 2 assignments and 2 presentations
• therefore finish reading 3 other papers
• begin to write the 3rd presentation
• finish the advent calender project
• finish recording project
• send parents' christmas present
• send Galih's birthday present
• send relatives christmas postcards
• reunion with Jenov :D
• hopefully I could finish the first tasks earlier,so that I can attend KMKI Aachen's christmas party

Gees, I have a lot to do.

Day 28: Something that I miss

I miss dancing

I miss pempek

and I miss my mbah

Day 27: A problem that I have had

Got jerks in my group, that could not work and could not even cooperated.. Well said (or maybe not?): I'm too persistent. And my eyes are again opened to see that a lot of boys are weak. A lot. Not all. Ok, maybe it's just me, who is just too sanurian..

Day 26: What Kind of Person Attract Me

I'm not really sure, what they actually want from me to write.. To attract means in my opinion to get an attention because of two reasons: positive and negative. Both cause a same effect: sometimes I couldn't get my eyes off them.

The positive ones: I couldn't get my eyes off him/her, because he/she looks good or he/she has something that makes me never get bored to look at him/her. He/she is really really smart or talkative. He/she dances. He/she sings or plays music. He/she is a nice person to talk with. He/she is open minded.

The negative ones: I couldn't get my eyes off him/her, because there is something wrong with their appearance. Not ugly. Unproportional face something like that should be enough. He/she has a weird accent, that sounds soooo annoying! Well okay, more annoying than that would not cause me to look at them. Because longer I look at them, I have this feeling, that I'm near to kill them ;)

In case of finding partner: just look at the positive one (but only for the 'he'). Additionally, I would add:he is clean (in view of taking bath regularly) and neat (his clothes are ironed!). He is older and wiser and catholic.  He is polite and well educated. He travels.  etc etc :)

Day 25: Someone who fascinates me

Oh I finally got an inspiration, who I want to write about.. :) I met this woman in Dortmund in 2009. She stayed not really long in Germany, but she is one of the most independent women beside sanurian that I've ever met. She inspired me a lot to be an independent smart woman. Because she does. I look what she has been now! She has been living in so many countries, experienced so many culture.She is open-minded and she has friends from all around the world. She talks about politics and percuade women to participate in politics as well. She is more sanurian than a sanurian, but she is not a nerd and she is quite religious, in her own way. For a short time, we became really close, eventhough I almost lost contact with her *bad me*. And she made me believe somehow, smart woman belongs to smart environment and smart guy. I think she is the real modern Kartini: women should be allowed to experience education as high as they want to.

Hmm, maybe I should get in contact with her again :) By the way, selamat Hari Pahlawan!

Day 24: my favorite movie

So, my favorite movie is....

This film was released in 2003. I watched once at the movie(I guess) and several time at home. The film is about clownfish father and son. It started  with a tragic scene where humans destroy the underwater living and Marlin lost all of his eggs (and wife) except one, Nemo. But because of the accident, Nemo was then born handicapped. His one fin was really small that reduced his swimming ability. Like any other little kid got mad to his dad, Nemo tried to runaway from home, but got captured a diver / fish collector. Marlin had then an adventure to find and get back Nemo home. On the way, he met Dory, a good-hearted bluefish with SML-syndrome, sharks, other small fish and turtles. Don't forget Squirrel and his "Dude"! This film made me cry everytime I saw it.

Day 23: Five pictures of famous guys that I find attractive

1. Eddie Redmayne, played in Les Miserables

2.Chris Pine, played in Princess Diary 2 and Into The Woods

3. Aidan Turner, played in The Hobbit

4.Ramin Karimloo, sings musicals, like: Phantom of The Opera, Love Never Dies, Les Miserables, etc.

5. Valentin Schreyer, played in Lindenstrasse

  
Photo courtesy: Google

O zapft' is!

Wenn ich schon gar nicht nach Muenchen zum Oktoberfest ging, musste ich unbedingt auf das Oktoberfest im Dorf gehen. Es ging eigentlich nur um Haxe Essen :) Aber ich sah das auch als eine Chance, die Dirndl, die ich vor 2 Jahren schon gekauft habe, anzuziehen (bevor sie mir net mehr passt, hehe).

Echt eine schoene Deko

Haxe, Haxe, Haxe!

Wir beide :)

Selfie ;)

Day 22: How have I changed in the past 2 years?

Physically: I can just gain weight without loosing any pounds! But this is always happen to me (hmm as long as I can remember) everytime I have a boyfriend. Haha. It is just started this summer, but I'm now more motivated to do more sport. Well okay, it might still a little bit less than I should do in a week. I'm still proud of myself, though! Well, I ride bike as usual, but my campus now is even nearer than the last ones and you know, Oldenburg is flat! So during the summer break, we went swimming once a week. We, I mean, Thomas and I. During the internship, the swimming pool is closed. So I went to muscle training course. That was hard. Eventhough, you get used to it after a few times. This semester I do zumba with my flatmate every wednesday. That's fun. But still I hope, that I may have more time to do some other sports within the week.

Mentally:

• I become more a "let' build a family" type (is this a change?)
• Less homesick
• More talkative, especially in German
• I become sassier, I guess 
• At the same time depend a lot on Thomas and independent for my study
• I try to have more initiative to help the other(that I know)
• I try to manage time by myself
• Try to get anything that I want, without (financial) help from my parents
• I become more defensive when it comes to refugees. I don't like refugees and I still haven't seen a reason, why I have to be sympathic to them 

I think this should be enough.

Day 21: One of my favorite shows..

Uh oh... You might laugh at me. I don't really watch shows and I guess we are not talking about series.. I watch something like Shopping Queen, 4 Hochzeiten und eine Traumreise, even Adam und Eva. I like Opera van Java  as well, but I haven't watched them for a long time of my staying in Germany. I watch also Ellen Degeneres sometimes. I love the Let's Dance and Dancing with the Stars (especially the one with Jennifer Grey and Derek Hough. They are REALLY GOOD in EVERY MOVEMENT! AMAZING :D

But the best show is JIMMY KIMMEL LIVE! Especially the episodes with children and with Aunt Chippy. It's just too innocent and way too creative! I could not stop laughing.You must see my favorite here :

Day 20: How Important Education is

This topic was done once in the last blog challenge. See here.

Day 19: Disrespecting My Parents

Aha. If you don't want to get a punch, don't you dare disrespecting my parents. They are not the best persons but they are the best that I have, so don't you dare. My aunt got angry with me because she blamed my mom for one thing, that my mom didn't missunderstand but she. And I berated the cousin of a good friend of mine because she 'blamed' my mom to have forwarded her wrong info, that my mom even only copy pasted it from anybody else, and she wrote it. Idiots!

I might not the most polite daughter, because I like to fight for my freedom, but I think everything still can be categorized as 'okay'. My parents still pay my living costs here, and it is not a small amount, so I have logically no reason disrespecting my parents. Why should I?

Day 18: My Beliefs

I believe in God, that has plans on me. I believe that he hears us and every time he gave us obstacles, he just wants us to be stronger than we are before. He is not giving us something above of what we could handle. So, if this semester I have so many presentations to be done. I will try my best to finish all and let Him do the rest :)

I believe that any kind of education is important. Nevertheless, it is also important to get socialize with people. They are part of life education, you know! Formal education without social life is a 'handicapped'-education.

I believe that young women also have rights on freedom. They may make decisions on their own, they may take the risks of life, they may travel around the world alone (if they want to). Parents may give suggestions, not orders. Parents may worry about their daughters, who lives far away, but they should believe in her, that she can handle things.

I believe that catholic schools still have the best education methods and show the best effects on children. Don't ask me why.

I believe that my diet this time is going to work out and I can loose some weights (haha! yeah).

I believe that parents let their kids marry who they love. Independently from religion, race, culture, usw. I'm so lucky, ya? :) But I'm sad though, because my bestfriend has never been in a relationship in her whole life, just because she has to be with bataknese and catholic man. That's hard, man!

I believe that eventhough we found more and more men who stay home for the kids, women should be able to do homeworks, like cooking, washing, cleaning, ironing, on their own. Independently on wheather they like it or not.

Day 17: High and Low in this past year

Counting from 20.10.2014-20.10.2015, here are my highs and lows:

Lows

• Moved to Oldenburg
• The first semester in Jade HS was like hell. I met a guy from higher semester who was not able to do anything. I mean really anything. The only thing he knew was how to install some software, but he can't use the software
• Eca went back for good :(
• Got pickpocked on the way from Vienna to Salzburg
• Worked for three months in McDonalds

Highs

• Passed the first semester
• Enrolled in the university, juhuu :)
• Passed last semester pretty good. The worst score was 2.0! Ahoi
• Been in Denmark, Austria and Switzerland this year
• Holidays with family
• Started to work at itap GmbH
• Did internship in EV

I try to keep being positive then for the next semester :)

Day 16: my view about mainstream music

Hey, it was again the same topic from two years ago! Click here to read it :)
I'm getting worse in updating some chart songs from the last 1,5 year.. My boyfriend suggested a lot of songs though, most from the 90s.. Pop, rock and metal.. Still don't like metal though.. So it always ended up with jazz :) Jazz say it :*

Day 15: My favorite Tumblr

Don't read tumblr that much...

Day 14: My earliest memory

Ups. Sorry I couldn't handle blogging... :( Things are going crazy again. Well, before I was at my brother and my boyfriend. Could not write everyday. Pardon.

Do I remember anything? Hmmm... I remember just something from the time when I was in kindergarten, but not the time younger... Eventhough when I saw photos, I looked (most of the time) quite happy.

I remember that I peed on a pissoir.. I remember when I sleptover at my grandma with my elder cousin. She was 12 and I was 6 at that time and we took a bath together. At that time I thought, "I want to have boops as well". What a thought!

In the kindergarten I was maybe one of the most embarassing kids ever.. Haha. In the first year I always did, what my teacher did. So if we sing and do some movement, I will stand up like my teacher, go to one side of the class where everybody can see me as well and start to sing and do the movement like my teacher. *facepalm*

Day 13: Somewhere I would like to move or visit

Hmm, I would like to move back to Jülich, to be honest.. But to move somewhere else, as long I can live with Thomas together, it doesn't matter for me as well...

I would like to visit.....
1. U.S.A: some relatives,  Disneyland Florida, NYC, Broadway

2. Indonesia: Raja Ampat, Green Canyon Pangandaran, Padang, Bunaken

3. Columbia

4. Turkey for ballooning

5. Egypt

6. Azerbaijan, meet Ulviyya again!
7. South Africa

8. Australia

9. UK, visiting Harry Potter's shooting locations, Big Band, watching concert or musical

10.a lot more!!

Photo courtesy: google

Day 12: Bullet my lazy day

Let's start:

• woke up at 10 a.m.
• had breakfast & tea
• marinated meat with gyros spices
• booked mitfahr
• had lunch
• baked apple cake
• delivered padang clothes to  Darwin n Nandea
• grill for dinner
• watched Dread Out
• took a bath
• it's Saturday Nite!!

Day 11: put my Spotify on Shuffle

These are the first 10 songs:
1. Creep (Karen Souza's version)
2. Johanna  (OST. Sweeney Todd)
3. Cinta dan Rahasia (Glenn Fredly, Yura Yunita)
4. Fightman (Casiopea)
5. All of me (Ella Fitzgerald)
6. What am I to you? (Norah Jones)
7. I wish (Stevie Wonder)
8. Nobody knows you when you're down and out (Eric Clapton)
9. Gone (Melody Gardot)
10. Goodnite (Melody Gardot)

Day 10: My first love and first kiss

Ahaha. This is gonna a quite embarassing topic ever. Or maybe not. Well, none of them hurts, if I talk about it actually. I mean, both were a quite good memory, even without a good ending. But I learn that life has to continue. And as the germans say: es ist auch gut so :)

My first love was the misdinar's CEO, while I was his secretary. I think he knew for a while after he broke up with my twinnie best friend, that I fell in love with him. But for some reasons, it's never ended up good. I became really over jealous, eventhough I was not his girlfriend. And to remember this thing is really really embarassing. It's just so childish! Well ok, I was 14 y.o at that time, but still it didn't sound so good. He is now in a relationship with a young woman from my brother's year since 9 or 10 years, I lose count ;) Good,that I moved on quite quick. Haha :) Since then, I've learned something: I become quite careful in choosing friends (this is really true) and not to tell everyone that I'm in love with somebody. It hurted at the time, that he can't be my bf, but it hurted more to realize what happened behind my back.

My first kiss was to my ex-pit trainer. I don't think that my parents know about this and that they would love to hear this. But it was my decision, or my wish to have a first kiss before I study in Germany. Don't know, maybe I just want to try, before I kiss bule or so.. Indonesian ought to be at that time more trustable. Hehe. Our story was quite short. But as I promised myself, I never regreted it, but I don't want to go back either. Es ist gut so :)

Day 9: How I hope my future be like

Wow. Things have changed a lot since the same theme from the previous blog challenge (See the article here). Circa the half of the old wishes couldn't come true, some I even cancelled.

So this is the recap of the old ones:

• I couldn't get a job so no resignment. 
• I didn't apply for Indonesia mengajar and I wasn't in Indonesia.
• I'm not married yet
• No internship til June, I started (due to the lack of money) master in biomedical engineering but then got totally frustated after one semester
• I got IELTS of 6.5, but couldn't apply for the scholarship because I missed 0.5 point in one of the subjects
• I was in Indonesia only to celebrate my parents' silver wedding anniversary
• I got my german driving license.

So, something continues... This is how I want my future to be like:
I will finish my master within 2 years

 

Getting married or engaged in the age of 25

Have 3 cute kids and a gentle lovely husband and living in small comfortable house with a garden

Get a job with a good salary in North Rhein-Westfalen or anywhere else where Thomas and I can live together
 





Get myself a BMW Mini

 
Photos: google

Day 8: A moment I felt most satisfied with my life

This most satisfied feeling doesn't mean like, I don't have any other problems to face, does it? Or maybe I haven't had it yet... I mean, I was satisfied, when I got enrolled in Santa Ursula. That was kinda achievement in life. Haha. But I know, the hard 3 years are coming closer... I was satisfied, that I finished bachelor defence and thesis with a perfect score. But I knew then directly after, that I was facing the problem that I am jobless. I was satisfied having an really pretty apartment for my own butt, but I knew, that is gonna be a problem when I don't get a job in NRW. I am satisfied that I am studying what I want, but I need to work hard and think hard to be able to get a job in NRW (if Thomas couldn't move to another bundesland). So yeah, I don't know. I am satisfied with what I have now, but maybe I can't define it as 'the most satisfied moment'.

Day 7: my zodiac sign and how it fits my personality

It's the same thing, I got on the previous blog challenge. So here to recall..

Day 6: 30 interesting facts about me

I wrote 24 already and it's just gone. Unbelievable :(
So here they are:
1. I was born in Jakarta on a indonesian friendship day in 1990
2. I am left-handed in writing and playing badminton or tennis
3. I am right-handed in cutting, playing baseball or guitar
4. I can use both to iron my clothes. Not at the same time though.
5. Love musicals, would really love to watch all of them live, but they are sometimes extremely expensive :(
6. Sound of music was the first musical I watched live, played by sanurians in GKJ. Since then, I watched the film, my grandpa even copied my 2 soundtrack books, memorized all the songs and all the actors& actress by heart. Just imagine this freaky 11-year-old girl...
7. No, I don't play bass, but really want to..
8. I am singing in Lounge Pad since May/June 2013. The first thought as I joined in: "oh damn, no one as a potential boyfriend..." Haha, things change tho! ;)
9. Don't ever offer me to share a schnitzel when I'm drunk.. I'll eat them all, try to put everything in my mouth, but land on the floor and you have to pay :P
10. I learned guitar because I admire somebody. I stop playing guitar, because I'm in love with somebody
11. I can't eat that spicy, but my favorite food is still rendang
12. My dream car is BMW-Mini.. It has to be a mini!
13. I paid for german driving license with my own salary.
14. I can drive in Germany, but not in Indonesia. My parents still believe that I can drive. Besides, I don't want to drive as well, because the traffic is rude!
15. I am a tea-lover, but no spice-tea..
16. I can't eat weißwurst and honey mustard as Germans do.. If you want me to die, then yes..
17. When is this gonna reach 30???
18. I tried to pee on a pissoir when I was in the kindergarten. I was wondering why the pissoir is quite high for me.. So I stood on tiptoe, lifted one of my leg, and the rest... you know.
19. Craving for martabak bangka....
20. Actually, I need 1 cm more to may sit on a normal car seat...
21. I think my high school uniform is pretty cool, my boyfriend said it doesn't look like a (normal)uniform
22. I love math, but I was kicked out of the class by Pak Robert two times because I couldn't finish my homework. O what a shame...
23. I was born as a dancer, but I haven't danced since 2 years.. Couldn't convince Thomas strong enough to be my dance partner.
24. Maybe I should remind him tho. Last time he was a bit jealous, because I danced with a stranger at Dariusz's birthday (well I was actually dancing with Dariusz' brother).
25. I'm moved on from misdinar. YEAY! I still love to be on altar once in a while when I'm home, but I don't have this miss-the-duty-on-christmas-or-easter kind of homesick
26. Still a big fan of powerpuff girls
27. The train was once being cancelled because of me. I had a stomachache and I got unconscious for several times before entering the train's toilette. They brought me to hospital in Eschweiler by firefighter wagon and Nessa was there with me, got confused with me and the people that only talk german, but at the end enjoying the view of some handsome doctors who examined me ;)
28. I don't eat raisin and marzipan
29. I still want to meet Lea Salonga, Colm Wilkinson and Alfie Boe
30. Don't really like the fact that germans are way busier during the advent than indonesians.. It's so difficult to invite people to come on my birthday.. That's disappointing...

Day 5: A time I thought about ending my own life

Oh. This is absurd. I have never thought about this before. Honestly not really.
One thing possible that I ought to think, that I want to die peacefully, like just take a nap and than just pass away. I don't think it could be categorized as 'ending my own life'. This phrase just sounds like 'choose between accident or suicide'. Haha. For me at least.

So ok. I have read some articles of some people who might almost killed by something. From all, there is only one thing I would consider. Have you ever heard about the 'angel of death'? It's not really like angel, it's actually just a normal person, whose job is to inject some chemical to his client, which cause his death. Some people chose this, like for couples, who have lived unseparable for years and suddenly one of them got really sick. I might consider this way,as long as:

•  I am old enough, that my children could feed themselves despite my absent,
•  My husband is not dead by sudden,
• My husband and I have this unseparable bond,
• We are debt-free.

Anything else I forgot? Hmm, I don't know.. Enough for know I guess... Live my life, just as it is and give my best :)

Day 4: my view on religion

Hmm. This is a not-so-easy topic ya. 

Es ist einfach ein bisschen anders geworden, seitdem ich umgezogen bin. Ich habe keine Zeit mehr, um zu Herz-Jesu Freitagsmesse zu gehen, da ich ja freitags normalerweise auf dem Weg nach Linnich bin. Seitdem gehe ich auch nur noch selten zur indonesischen Messe. Hmm, jetzt, wo ich es schreibe, vermisse ich KMKI doch. Aber irgendwie hat es auch nicht zeitlich gepasst. Als ich einen Monat da war, gab es einfach keine Messe :(

Und so nach fast 6 Jahren ist die Sehnsucht nach Messdiener auch viel geringer geworden (gue udah move on, yeah!).

Naja, abgesehen davon versuche ich die Glaube noch zu halten. Ich glaube immer noch daran, dass der Gott seine Macht und Zeit hat, alles in seine Ordnung zu bringen. Natürlich wird es sich nix ändern, wenn man nix tut. Also lernen, studieren, Masterarbeit schreiben, Job suchen muss man schon tun. Da muss man schon sein Bestens geben. Den Rest macht der Gott. 

Ich glaube fest daran: Gott steckt immer hinter mir :) Wenn mir was Schlimmes passiert ist, steckte bestimmt was Gutes dahinter, das ich vllt zu dem Zeitpunkt einfach noch nicht begreifen konnte.. Man muss auch Geduld hat, bis es auftaucht, dann versteht man auch.

Ich bin katholisch und bleibe bis meinen Tod treu.

Day 3: my view on drugs and alcohol

For me, it's a clear statement:

I've never used drugs and will never used that as well.

I'm not really against alcohol, because I also drink alcohol. But we should know ourself better and muss not let ourself be addicted to alcohol. My dad doesn't like it that much, that I was so drunk once. Thomas and I drink wine or beer usually on special occasions or weekends, when we meet friends or colleagues. Alcohol as a social drink, but I always look on the situation, with who I go drinking.. As a lady, I feel not so safe if I'm drunk and I have to walk home alone. Trust me. This happened a few times to me, so that I could say this. That's my tips :) Have a hand that you can trust to be hold when you're drunk, otherwise drink so much, that you can still walk straight ;)

Day 2: where I would like to be in 10 years

Anywhere. As long as I am with Thomas :) I should have got married by that time and might have (at least) 2 little cute children? I mean, in 10 years I will be 34 years old. *gees, old*

I would be still in Germany, I guess. Buy a house and a good mini ;) Hope to get a full-time job and no probleme with visa, though.

Day 1: my current relationship

What a hard first theme ;)
As you know, I'm with Thomas since almost 1,5 year.. A lot of things has changed since then, of course, like you know, we are more opened to each other. Thomas is a talkative as before, but I have been more talkative to him as well.

We are now in a long distance relationship, since I live in Oldenburg. But I go back home almost every weekend, so everything is quite fine. We are adults, and try to behave like adults. We have a gap of 7,5 years, but there is a time, where Thomas really act older and more protective, but for some case he treats me like we are just in the same age. So, it's just a perfect balance.

We have the same goal for our relationship. He knows my parents and my brother. And hopefully my brother and Thomas can get closer to each other as well. I know Thomas' big family.

3m

8m

10m

I'm happy to be with him and looking forward to step further with him. So, isn't it just perfect? :)

Blog Challenge 2015

Ab morgen soll es beginnen :)

Phantom of The Opera

Die Überschrift ist wahrscheinlich eindeutig. Ich hab das Phantom der Oper in Hamburg geguckt. Musik und Akustik ziemlich klasse. Bühne und Effekte waren echt gut gemacht. Mit der Übersetzung habe ich eigentlich schlimmer erwartet. Sie war ganz ok. Das Musical hat mir richtig gut gefallen. Vielleicht gucke ich auch das zweite :)

Am Freitag war ich im Miniatur Wunderland.

Bahnhof am Abend

Zigeuner

UFO

Oktoberfest in Bayern

This kinda colourful summer break

Es geht also direkt weiter, nachdem meine Eltern zurückgeflogen sind. Vier Wochen erstmal bei Thomas chillen, ein bissl Musik machen, spazieren gehen, Freunde besuchen. Ich hab auch endlich mal wieder mit Judith, Josephine und Feryal getroffen und gequatscht. Und Sabine, Khaled und Peggy auch. Wir haben zu zweit auch noch Köln besucht. Mathilda nur kurz gebabysitted. 

Dita & Tom machten ein übliches Touristenpflichtfoto vor dem Kölner Dom

You see the hair? I made it for her :)

Khaleds Abschiedsparty

Es gab ein Projekt. Wir haben Zaun gebaut, aus dem Relem eigentlich nicht rausgehen kann. Sie ist aber echt ein Lumpen. Das glaubst du gar nicht. Wir haben uns eine Woche damit beschäftigt, um herauszufinden, wo der Ausgang von Salem ist. Erfolgreich hat sie uns nur getauscht. Es ist uns mittlerweile egal. Sie kriegt sogar jetzt ne Treppe. Es hat mir eigentlich ziemlich Spaß gemacht, Zementieren, Schrauben, Messen, Streichen, außer dass es mega warm war. Dank Onkel Walter, der die meisten gemacht hat und uns mechanische Sachen gezeigt hat :)

Hier ist der neue tolle Zaun!

Hmm oja. Und am 29.8 haben wir aufm Dariuszs Geburtstag gefeiert. Reingefeiert eigentlich. Er hatte am Sonntag Geburtstag und wurde 50! Er hat Gerling Pavilion gemietet und das Essen war großartig! Alles lecker, aber richtig. 

Letzten Samstag haben wir Metti mit Sonjas Idee überrascht und wir haben ihn abgeholt, damit er mit uns auf die Bierbörse ging. Wir haben Mettis Geburtstag dann da reingefeiert. Das Wetter war eigentlich ok, es war zumindest nicht mehr nass, als wir da ankamen, aber je dunkler, desto kälter war es (trotz WINTERJACKE). Und später hat Tom sein Heizkissen benutzt, um meinen Po zu erwärmen.. Haha. Der Abend war auf jeden Fall spaßig. Ich und 7 Jungs: Tom, Metti, Christian, Darek, PeterK, Peterli, Robin. Klingt gerade wie Snow White and The Seven Dwarfs. Aber genauso umgekehrt. Ich war natürlich die kleinste ;) Auf der Bierbörse habe ich Münchener Hell, Erdbeerbier, 2 heiße Met, Rothaus Pils, Mühlen Kölsch. Die ersten drei haben mir ganz gut geschmeckt.

Es ist das Ende der zweiten Woche meines Praktikums in der audiometrischen Abteilung im EV. Ich durfte ab und zu schon alleine Tonaudiometrie und Tymp messen. Immer wieder brauchte ich Hilfe, aber es sollte ja eigentlich normal sein.

Juhuuu :)

 So ab ins Wochenende! Ich fahre diesmal nicht nach Jülich. Thomas ist beschäftigt mit der Wahl. Ich mach mir ein schönes Wochenende in Hamburg und gucke Phantom der Oper. ;) Schönes WE!!